Wednesday, February 9, 2011

My first taste of Vegemite


It tastes like soy sauce on toast! Eck!

I've lived Australia now for 238 days and I've avoided trying Vegemite like plague. It's the spread that Aussies have grown up with like we love peanut butter and jelly. In case you didn't know, Vegemite is a spread made from yeast extract. Every time I bust out the peanut butter at work, I get the evil eye from my Aussie colleagues like I'm putting crap on my toast. Well, I've had a taste of Vegemite and it tastes like crap on toast! Way salty and reminds me of soy sauce - however I love soy sauce, but not as a spread! My British colleagues are now trying to get me to try marmite - apparently a less salty British version of yeast extract spread. Gotta love being the token American in the office!

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

An Expat Christmas on the Beach


Expats Celebrating Christmas Day at Bronte Beach

I’m no stranger to a hot Christmas. In fact, last Christmas Dave and I spent the holidays in Koh Lanta, Thailand. This year, we’re in Sydney.

In Australia, the media shut down between mid-December and mid-January. So as a PR person, I too get a large break. Most of my colleagues left for London, Paris and even Singapore. So during the weeks prior to the holiday, I had very little to contribute to the conversation of “What are your holiday plans?” Despite not having exotic plans, being in Sydney was definitely different than the wintery cold Christmas’ we all know in the northern hemisphere.

On Christmas Eve, Dave and I were lucky enough to secure a new apartment in Potts Point. I had planned on focusing all my energy to apartment hunt for the break while my colleagues were off having adventures in other countries. The search thankfully ended prematurely and I was free to do whatever I wanted for the next few weeks!



The Orphans Gathered for Christmas Eve

On Christmas Eve Casey and Luis, our American expat friends we had met through Meet Up, invited us to their house for festivities. These two had been in Sydney for a year completing their 1 year Masters in Cross-cultural Communications at University of Sydney. They had graduated in November and had their whole lives ahead of them not knowing exactly what they were doing, despite having a Masters degree and near 30! I’m a bit jealous of their lives in Sydney. They are in school with people from all over the world studying about different cultures, stressing about tests and partying so hard when finals finished – gosh I miss uni! I live vicariously through them because I miss that time in my life when I had graduated from Fordham with no job and no certainty. As you all know I ended up backpacking through South East Asia and teaching in South Korea for nearly 2 years and now I’m living in Sydney, Australia! Definitely didn’t plan that one!



Christmas Cracker Crowns

We had been to their house before and had met all their friends, so this Christmas Eve was not spent with a room full of strangers, but had a bit of familiarity. I brought Christmas crackers or ‘bon bons’ for everyone to pop. I had Luis try it first. He was so nervous holding his end thinking it was actually a firecracker. Despite his wincing, he liked it and everyone tried one too.



White Elephant Gift Exchange


How Did We End Up With the Hats?

After a few drinks and catch ups, we proceeded with a white elephant gift exchange. To play, everyone had to bring a wrapped gift under $10 – the silliest the better (Dave brought a stress ball in the shape of a boob and a wine opener and I brought a kangaroo coin purse, Australia flag tattoos and a 3D kangaroo puzzle). We each pulled a number out of a hat. The first person goes and picks a gift and unwraps it. The second person goes up and picks up a gift and unwraps it. The second person has the opportunity to keep the present or trade with the first person. The third person goes up, unwraps a present and then has the opportunity of keeping the present or trading with person 1 or 2. This went on for 12 people. I started with a salt and pepper shaker and ended up with a pirate hat! Dave started with an Australian flag umbrella hat and ended up with it too! With a party full of foreigners, I guess no one wanted to sport the Australian flag.




A 'Shave' Christmas

On Christmas Day, Dave and I began with a large breakfast of crumpets, eggs and bacon because for the rest of the day, we were going to be at Bronte Beach with slim possibilities of getting remotely close to the grills.

Our apartment on Victoria Street was a shoebox. We had no room for a Christmas tree, so we supplemented with dollar store bought stockings hanging from our closet door. For weeks, we concealed our presents and now we were finally opening them up! For our entire relationship, Dave has been awesome at gift-giving – always thoughtful and practical. This Christmas, we kept the budget to $100 each because we knew the new apartment would deplete our wallets. He got me my favourite perfume Michael by Michael Kors, a yoga mat, a riddle book and Lindt chocolate – all things I love! Since Dave is such an active guy, I got him a volleyball, a ball pump, new bathing suit and an assortment of Willy Wonka brand sour candies – his favourite junk food.



Passed Out Baking on Christmas Day at Bronte Beach

After unwrapping presents, we took a 25 minute bus ride to Bronte Beach and parked ourselves on sarongs all day. We would get up only to dip our feet in the very cold Pacific Ocean, stroll on the beach and watch the seagulls sipping water from the stream that ran down from the city to the ocean water. Every beach around Sydney was packed with sunbathers and Santa hats – a site uncommon to us Northern hemisphere folk! 



Reppin' Aussie Pride on Christmas Day



The New Look of Stick Figure Art
Don't Drink at the Beach!



Enjoying Christmas Bronte Beach 

With everything closed that day, Dave and I relived the film A Christmas Story by having dinner of Chinese food in Chinatown and it was delicious! Each bite of my sesame tofu reminded me that this Christmas although unconventional was special in its own right. We were lucky enough to be with friends, eating a warm meal and enjoying a city so amazing that celebrated Christmas too! We really missed our families back home and in Korea, but we weren’t alone this year – we had our family in Sydney.

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Chapter 2

It took us a while to get here, but now we truly feel that we’ve come into our own – Sydneysiders living the Australian dream. Dave and I joke that we’re now in our second chapter of our life in Australia. Our first chapter included our exhausting and wallet depleting move from South Korea to Australia. The story continued with the craziness of trying to find an apartment, securing jobs and creating friendships.

Our lease was to end on January 15, six and a half months since we moved into 8/298 Victoria Street. In December, my nerves began to fill my stomach and my head just thinking about how hard it would be to find an apartment during the holidays when most people are not looking to move. So for the whole of December, I was on domain.com.au looking for places within our price range, which has gone up because you can’t fight the property industry in Sydney – everyone pays sickening prices per week. Very few places showed up with the criteria we wanted:
  • 1 Bedroom
  • Separate Bathroom, Living room, kitchen
  • In the Eastern Suburbs
  • Close to transport, shops and cafes
  • Furnished with at least a bed
  • And under most importantly $400 per week
Luckily, Dave took his birthday day off and looked at 3 places around Darlinghurst and Potts Point. Unfortunately, they were unfurnished and way too expensive for what they offer. Such a bust. So I went back to searching the website and emailed a lot of agents for inspection times. Luckily, one agent came back to me for an inspection on the morning of Christmas Eve. In Australia, the media shuts down from mid-December to mid-January. Therefore, as a PR professional, I got a lot of time off – perfect for apartment hunting. So while I was off, I went to the inspection while Dave was at work. I walked 15 minutes from our current apartment to 402/40 Macleay Street – just around the corner from Kings Cross. The building upon me was a serviced hotel converted into individual apartments. The agent was late, so I knocked on the door and was greeted by a lovely French couple here on a one year visa to casually work and travel. They said they use this apartment as a home base when they are travelling around Australia and Vanuatu – a French colony island where their families live. This was a great chance or me to ask the residents about the apartment directly without bias from the agent. They told me that this apartment was fantastic – quiet, clean, hot and strong water pressure, and all the furniture and appliances worked perfectly. Beyond the conversation, the apartment spoke for itself. On the fourth floor, it had a view of sail boats in Elizabeth Bay. Because it was a corner room, the huge windows revealed rooftops similarly fashioned to European skylines with terracotta rooftops. Listening to them describe the apartment, their words rang clear in my mind – we had to have this apartment.

Fifteen minutes later, the agent arrived with one other prospect. The agent was very matter of fact. He didn’t say much and was just there to show us the place within a 15 minute timeslot so he could go home. After all it was Christmas Eve! The other prospect seemed interested. He was a gay Filipino guy who was living in a studio in Elizabeth Bay area and wanted a larger apartment. Judging each other’s interest while remaining to look ambivalent, we asked each other if we were interested. We both said, “Yeah. It’s alright.” I asked the agent when he needed the paperwork and he said after Christmas or today by noon. I said, ok I’ll bring it next week after Christmas, hoping the other prospect would hear me and do the same.

Leaving the apartment, I called Dave frantic. This was a huge decision for two people and I was making it without Dave ever have seeing it! He assured me that if I liked it, then he would too. Plus, it had big windows and that’s all he really cared about. So in the next hour, I found our bank statements, printed receipts of our savings from an ATM, brought our pay slips and took out $400 for the deposit. At 11am, I returned to the agent’s office with all my paperwork and signed over my deposit. Even more lucky, the agent lowered the price to $390 per week because they were in the middle of selling it to a new investor and needed to show off the apartment twice a week. They would come in on Wednesdays and Saturdays from 12-1230pm. Once they sold the apartment, we would still get to pay the discounted rate! I left the office satisfied with the morning’s work. The deed was done and my search was over. I had anticipated a huge apartment hunt for the whole of my vacation, but now I had secured mine and Dave’s second chapter in Sydney.
 

Dumping the Luggage into the New Apartment


The Only Thing That Matters After 3 Hours of Moving


Absolutely Exhausted


A lot of Clothes to Put Away

So for 3 weeks, we waited in anticipation. We made it a point to walk around the building picturing our future selves taking our morning run from our new apartment, grabbing groceries across the street, and preparing for picnics to Elizabeth Bay or Rushcutters Bay. The night before we left our Victoria Street apartment, we cleaned it out for the next tenant and reminisced about all the times we had to eat on our bed because we had no table and laughed with delight because we would never have to share a kitchen again with people who never washed their dishes.

Moving day finally came on January 13th. Dave and I took off work early. We picked up the keys and walked over to our new home. I opened the door for Dave just watching his reaction. His face expressed quiet approval and content. Now was the hard part – moving all of our belongings.

Dave is never one to spend for cabs, moving trucks or anything that would expedite our moving trip if he can physically move it himself. So, despite my protests, we filled two rolling duffels and 2 rolling suitcases and walked our stuff from Victoria Street in Darlinghurst to Macleay Street in Potts Point – a 20 minute walk through the ‘red-light district’ of Sydney. Thankfully, this move consisted of only 2 trips with full luggage and 1 extra trip to grab the delicates like Dave’s guitar, lamps and the thing we looked most forward to – pizza and beer. Certainly a refreshing reward for a hard day’s work. We stayed up till midnight arranging our stuff to complement our new home and we rested like we had labored on a construction site.



View from Our Bedroom

 

New Plants to Bring Life into the Apartment
Lavender, Basil, Rosemary


Decorated like a Spa: Our Bedroom

 

Three Years without an Oven!
First Thing we made was Cupcakes

Living Room at Night

 

Resourceful Cooking: Makeshift Steamer
Continuuing the Tradition with Lamb: The First Meal we Made in Our First Apartment

 

Lamb, Salad and French Bread
White Fish, Jasmine Rice and Sauteed Pak Choy

Every morning when we wake to the sunrise over Elizabeth Bay we look at each other with thanks. We are so thankful for getting to this point in our journey of being together, making the move to a new country and new continent and establishing ourselves in a new city where we knew no one. This is the second chapter to the Shave story and we are so excited to experience whatever may come next.

How long have I been here?